too much pressure
yesterday morning as i was crossing the yard at work i made the customary greeting to a co-worker, "good morning".
he responded by saying, "how are ya?"
now i'm under pressure.
does he really want to know or is he just greeting me?
do i need to tell him how i am doing? after all we are just two guys passing in the rain.
do i need to ask him how he is doing? i once read an article about people who don't enquire as to the welfare of others. they were selfish and self-centered. i certainly don't want to be perceived as selfish so i guess i should ask him back. but now it's a second greeting. now we have to stop.
and does he really care anyway?
am i going to be a slave to the socially proscribed roles?
what if he really is having a bad day and i don't ask?
do i really want to hear about his bad day?
maybe next time i'll just pretend to be looking at my paper. too much pressure.
he responded by saying, "how are ya?"
now i'm under pressure.
does he really want to know or is he just greeting me?
do i need to tell him how i am doing? after all we are just two guys passing in the rain.
do i need to ask him how he is doing? i once read an article about people who don't enquire as to the welfare of others. they were selfish and self-centered. i certainly don't want to be perceived as selfish so i guess i should ask him back. but now it's a second greeting. now we have to stop.
and does he really care anyway?
am i going to be a slave to the socially proscribed roles?
what if he really is having a bad day and i don't ask?
do i really want to hear about his bad day?
maybe next time i'll just pretend to be looking at my paper. too much pressure.


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